Totally disagree with the 3DSMax and Maya. He's a beginner, those programs will overcomplicate things.
For design and photography, I would suggest getting started with 2D drawing programs like Photoshop and Illustrator (maybe Adobe Lightroom for photos as well). For web programming, there are so many things, you don't even wanna know

But you can start with HTML and XHTML. Then try learning the basic principles of programming and start using Javascript. If you're not confused by that point, you'll know what to do next.
Here's a great site to get started:
http://www.w3schools.com/default.asp
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